We were out of the house before 7am on a snow blown morning. My daughter was going to her first Junior Lifeguard competition. She was excited as she raced to the pool. Her enthusiasm was fantastic, even though she had expressed being a tad of nervous. Aren't we all a bit like that when we try something new? Some people even have fear. There can be a whole range of emotions. I believe this gives us our competitive edge. Enthusiasm, nervous energy, and practice channelled with focus offers peak performance.
As the events progressed, she became frustrated because she did not place as she had hoped. I listened attentively. Here was an opportune time for a lesson. When we try things for the first time, we cannot expect perfection. We need to strive for excellence by giving our best efforts. What matters most is that we "show up". How many people had the opportunity to compete? How many people actually did compete? You see, we all have opportunities that come our way but it is the choice to take action on those opportunities that makes the difference.
I went on to ask her if she had learned what she could do to improve her performance. She started to rattle off a list of things. If we reflect and review our performance, we can improve our game plan and our performance. It is important to learn from our lessons but far greater importance to look at our progress. Look at where you have come in the past year and how much you have grown as a person. Celebrate - You "showed up" and you are amazing!
I am proud of my daughter for "showing up", her accomplishments, and letting me share this lesson with you.
• Show Up
• Aim for Excellence, Not Perfection
• Give Your Best
• Reflect & Review
• Learn the Lesson
• Look at Your Progress
• Celebrate
We can be our own worst critic. Remember if you "show up", you have already gone further than those who chose not to. Showing Up Trumps All!
You continue to inspire me...with your insites and your energy....
ReplyDeleteThank you Bob!I have had great mentors...wink!
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